I hate when other girls tell me, “Let him do whatever he wants with other girls because whenever he comes home, you’ll be the only thing on his mind.” That’s just not how I do relationships. If he’s my boyfriend, he’s off limits to any girl who tries to pursue more than a friendship with him. I’m not one of those “free bitches.” I don’t mind be tied down to one person. If we’ve been together long enough & we’ve proved our feelings for each other, then we belong with each other. 

“Maybe if you had it right the first time…”

I don’t know if it’s just me, but I completely dislike that phrase. Right when someone says that to me, my automatic response is “Well damn/fuck. I’m sorry I’m not perfect like you.”

Maybe I’m being just a butthurt little bitch, but hey. It’s absolutely true. No one is perfect, no matter how hard they try to be. Everyone makes mistakes. It takes mistakes to learn, some make more than others.

So take that perfectionist stick out of your ass & deal with it.

Seeing my aunt at church today after her stroke made me realize how much I missed my cousin/best friend & her family.

I can’t stay mad at my cousin for spending more time with her boyfriend than me. It’s such a stupid & selfish reason to be angry with someone. I love my cousin as if she were my sister. Although my family & hers are fighting over something probably long overdue & pointless, I’ll always cherish the great times we spent with each other.

I realized a long time ago that butting into people’s problems isn’t always considered “helping.”

If someone needed a shoulder to cry on, if someone needed your help, they’d ask for it. There’s nothing wrong with genuinely trying to be a good person trying to help out someone you care about, but there’s just a point where what you consider “helping” isn’t really “helping” at all. Actually, you might be making things worst for them.

Nothing wrong with taking the initiative, but it doesn’t give you the right to nosey yourself into to other’s problems.

If they need something, they’ll ask. Trust me.

I’m fine all by myself.

I’m much more of an independent person; I like doing things by myself. I’d rather go shopping all alone than with a big group of people or I’d eat alone @ some place than go with a bunch of people.

I don’t mind good company, it’s great, I love it. But I don’t know. I realized that there’s nothing wrong with being by yourself. Whether you’re fighting your own battle, or just simply being you & doing your daily do’s. 

A friend of mine told me, “You can’t depend on anyone to make you happy, because in the end you’re the only person who can make yourself happy.”

I love hanging out with the people I care about, but I need that space to do something on my own as well.